Monday, January 2, 2012

so....it happen to be 2012 now

Before it became too late, I really wanted to post the highlights of 2011. But that would take me too much time and emotion...

So I'll post them once I have the energy, after recuperating from the exhaust caused from unpacking, laundry-ing, and cleaning the home after 11 days trip, all in less than 24 hours...I'm a dead meat now and tolak angin is my friend

Tp gua iseng mo jawab buletin ginian. Sent from my cousin yg tumben2an ngirim email kurang kerjaan gini :P en gua yg bo liaou ngerjain ini email ... anyway here we go :

At the cusp of the New Year, most of us take a little time to reflect on our lives by looking back over the past and ahead into the future. We ponder the successes, failures and standout events that are slowly scripting our life’s story. This process of self-reflection helps us maintain a conscious awareness of where we’ve been and where we intend to go. It is pertinent to the organization and preservation of our long-term goals and happiness.

The questions below will help you with this process.
Because when it comes to finding meaning in life, asking the right questions is the answer

In one sentence, who are you?
melissa bombie surya

Why do you matter?
Coz I mattered in God's eyes.

What is your life motto?
Philipians 4:13

What’s something you have that everyone wants?
Joy

What is missing in your life?
soulmate

What’s been on your mind most lately?
scary thoughts of 2012

Happiness is a ________?
choice

What stands between you and happiness?
my wrong choice

What do you need most right now?
strength & patience

What does the child inside you long for?
a soulmate that I've been dreaming since I was a child.

What is one thing right now that you are totally sure of?
that my bank account is at my lowest balance ever since I work....hahaha

What’s been bothering you lately?
2012

What are you scared of?
that 2012 will not top 2011

What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Having peace of mind

What will you never give up on?
Jesus

What do you want to remember forever?
Jesus

What makes you feel secure?
Knowing that God approves & lead all my decision

Which activities make you lose track of time?
WATCH TV & dancing

What’s the most difficult decision you’ve ever made?
buying a home :P

What’s the best decision you’ve ever made?
Accepting God

What are you most grateful for?
Salvation

What is worth the pain?
Love

In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love,health, fame?
Happiness, Love, Health, Money, Fame

What is something you’ve always wanted, but don’t yet have?
a soulmate ( I think it's very clear right now)

What was the most defining moment in your life during this past year?
Buying a home and being a grown up

What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
my time management

What’s the number one thing you want to achieve in the next five years?
To have the courage to move out of my comfort zone

What is the biggest motivator in your life right now?
God and His timing

What will you never do?
Smoke

What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
None

What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
erm...none :P

What do you sometimes pretend to understand that you really do not?
Financial news or talks on bloomberg ?

In one sentence, what do you wish for your future self?
Happiness

What worries you most about the future?
That I don't live to fulfill the purpose of my creation

When you look into the past, what do you miss most?
NUS days

What’s something from the past that you don’t miss at all?
High school days

What recently reminded you of how fast time flies?
that it's now 3rd of Jan 2012 ? wooot :P

What is the biggest challenge you face right now?
myself

In one word, how would you describe your personality?
bombie.... haha :P I never know how to describe myself in one word ...it has to be minimum 2 : prim & proper

What never fails to frustrate you?
SMOKES, cigars & all their families

What are you known for by your friends and family?
strong headed

What’s something most people don’t know about you?
that I'm not as good as what they thought of me

What’s a common misconception people have about you?
that I demand too much in a soulmate

What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
smoke

What’s a belief you hold with which many people disagree?
that a date should be taken seriously & cautiously

What’s something that’s harder for you than it is for most people?
to Settle

What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Integrity, Honesty & faithfulness

If you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend?
erm....shouldn't this kind of friend be the one that u'll stick to longest as they even speak like the way u speak to urself ? it's like befriending urself, and if you're a good friend u would want to befriend urself ? No ?

When you think of ‘home,’ what, specifically, do you think of?
Surya Wijaya I, Blok sth sth no sth sth, with mom & dad & sis who will soon move out

What’s the most valuable thing you own?
physically : my future property

If you had to move 3000 miles away, what would you miss most?
friendships in SG

What would make you smile right now?
2011

What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
watch TV

What do you wish did not exist in your life?
erm... nothing so far

What should you avoid to improve your life?
watch too much TV

What is something you would hate to go without for a day?
a shower

What’s the biggest lie you once believed was true?
that di dalem polisi tidur bener2 ada polisi lagi tiduran :P

What’s something bad that happened to you that made you stronger?
got cheated over rental matters, that changes my whole game of life

What’s something nobody could ever steal from you?
Faith in Christ

What’s something you disliked when you were younger that you truly enjoy today?
Fish & seafood

What are you glad you quit?
hm.... dont know the answer for this

What do you need to spend more time doing?
Praying

What are you naturally good at?
unpacking !!

What have you been counting or keeping track of recently?
my finances

What has the little voice inside your head been saying lately?
go to sleep

What’s something you should always be careful with?
crime

What should always be taken seriously?
God

What should never be taken seriously?
sarcasm, bully's words & pointless critics

What are three things you can’t get enough of?
God, His love & His favor

What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
nothing

What fascinates you?
Nature

What’s the difference between being alive and truly living?
The essence of life ?

What’s something you would do every day if you could?
Dancing

At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive?
Musical moments

Which is worse, failing or never trying?
Never trying

What makes you feel incomplete?
not having a soulmate....like right now...

When did you experience a major turning point in your life?
22 august 2011

What or who do you wish you lived closer to?
God

If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
Be NICE & considerate

What’s something you know you can count on?
God's mercy

What makes you feel comfortable?
God's approval

What’s something about you that has never changed?
I'm still big

What will be different about your life in exactly one year?
I'm closer to 32

What mistakes do you make over and over again?
sleep too late like right now

What do you have a hard time saying “no” to?
TV

Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?
First one

What’s something that used to scare you, but no longer does?
Darkness

What promise to yourself do you still need to fulfill?
to be skinny

What do you appreciate most about your current situation?
that I'm happy right now

What’s something simple that makes you smile?
serial TV : Friends :)

So far, what has been the primary focus of your life?
Being happy :)

How do you know when it’s time to move on?
When God finally says so

What’s something you wish you could do one more time?
Musical... one more time.... and probably the last :)

When you’re 90-years-old, what will matter to you the most?
Family

What would you regret not fully doing, being, or having in your life?
doing : trying all the guts challenging rides / sports
being : a born rich girl :P hehehe
having : love

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